3 Tips to Help Someone Fall in Love with You and Mend Your Broken Heart

You see it on TV and in the movies, girl loves boy or boy loves girl but they love someone else. One way or another, they end up living happily ever after by the end of the show. In real life can the fairy tale happen? It is achievable to mend your broken heart and coerce someone into falling in love with you?

To getting that special someone to fall in love with you, here are 3 tips:

1. Common Interests – When people share a common pastime, they are often drawn to one another. As you get to know each other, find out their interests and if you share any. Maybe you share the love of hiking or reading the same type of books, whatever it is you can build on that interest. If they find out that you lied about an interest, you could be breaking their trust and putting the relationship at risk from progressing any further. Also, you never want to be someone you aren’t; you shouldn't have change “who” you are for someone you love.

2. Qualities – When looking for a partner, people often look for individuals who have qualities they love or respect. For example, one of my friends will only go out with men who are over 35, are non-smokers and have a sense of humor. Qualities that are attractive to the person you love, do you have any? When you investigate prior relationships, are there any like qualities shared between ex-partners? Do you share any qualities with them? You have to be careful here and don't try to be just like their past partners, after all there is a reason they broke up. It could be as simple as holding their hand, having the door being held open for them or made them feel special in some way could be that little something they were attracted to.

3. Be a good friend – I believe a good relationship starts with friendship. It may take a long time to get the person you love but as your friendship grows; you will become a vital part in their life. Do not put your life on hold however if they require you, be there for them, and be a good listener. You have to continue living and try dating other people. Looking like you are always just being there for them at every whim you will only make yourself look pathetic. It may sound weird to date other people while you wait for them but you have to show them that you have a life and other people are attracted to you, it may make them look differently at you, they may even find you more attractive.

It's difficult and heartbreaking when the person you love doesn't love you back. However that is not the way it has to be. Just like in the movies or on TV, you too could have a fairy tale ending however if these 3 tips do not work, that person may not be the one for you. Then you will have to know when to move on and try to mend your broken heart.