Your relationship has ended. The love of your life has just walked out your door. You want to cling to hope that you can somehow manage to work things out. You want to beg, bargain, and bully your way back into the relationship. More than anything, you want the pain your heart is feeling right now to go away – for good. But, for the moment, you just want to know how you can tell for sure if this is REALLY the end of your relationship.
There’s a small part of you that’s having a hard time accepting the fact that it’s over. You don’t WANT to accept it for one thing. But there’s also another part of you that can’t believe someone you shared so much with has just decided to get up and walk away – leaving you behind.
It’s understandable to feel this way. A lot of people in your situation feel very much the same. They even share the same confusing symphony of emotions, doubts, fears, and (albeit dim) hope. You all cling to hope like a life jacket all the while fearing it as tightly as you hold on to it.
How Can You Tell for Sure that It’s Over?
There’s one sure sign that your ex has moved on and there’s no room in his or her heart for you at all. It’s one of the most chilling experiences you’ll ever have. It’s complete and total indifference. When your ex seems to have no emotional response to you at all, then it’s probably time to move on.
Otherwise, there’s no way to know for sure that it’s over. Life is strange sometimes. Some of the situations that seem most hopeless end up being the most liberating and productive in your life.
The real question you should ask right now isn’t about whether you can be sure the relationship is over but whether or not you’re ready to accept that the relationship is over. Sometimes, you’re just not ready to give up and move on. That’s completely understandable. But you’re going to have to decide what your next move will be.
Are you going to try to get your ex back? Are you going to give up without a fight? Are you going to secretly pine for the lost love in your life? You have to figure out where you should go from here.
The good news is that the act of deciding helps you regain some of the control over your life that was lost when your relationship ended without getting your feelings on the matter. Now you’re back in the driver’s seat of your life and you can begin making choices about what your future holds.
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