Are you grasping at straws hoping to get your ex back?? Does it feel like everything you’ve tried so far has fallen flat or left you in worse shape than you were before you started? Are you ready to give up on all the plans that aren’t going to work in favor of something that will get positive results – no matter how small?
If that’s the case for you, today is your lucky day. You are about to learn 3 small steps that make a world of difference as you work to get your ex back.
Step 1 – Never Let them See You Sweat
From the moment you find out your ex is leaving you’re under a microscope whether you realize it or not. Chances are you didn’t know it was coming so this little bit of advice might be a little ate in reaching you. However, you are in control of what happens on this front from this moment on. Now is the time to get your emotions under control so that you never do or say something you’ll regret later to or around your ex again.
Emotions are high. The pain is severe. It’s easy to lash out in anger or to go the other route and do something as uncharacteristic as begging your ex for a second chance. Don’t let your ex get a rise out of you that you may later come to regret. Don’t run and hide either. Be cordial and keep your comments to and about your ex brief and flattering. That alone will reveal a great deal about both of you.
Step 2 – Stop Making Excuses
This cuts both ways. People usually fall into one of these two categories though. People, in general, either make excuses for actions they believe led to the breakup or they make excuses for not taking action to change their circumstances.
You’ll hear plenty of people who talk about how much they want to get their exes back but never make one single change in hopes of making that happen. Make changes – not excuses. You’ll never get your ex back if you aren’t willing to change. That doesn’t mean that all the changes made must be yours. It just means that changes are going to be necessary and making excuses will defeat your plans before they get off the ground.
Step 3 – Adjust Your Attitude
Attitude is everything at a time like this. A negative or defeated attitude will cost you victory before it has a chance to happen. You need to believe you will get your ex back. If you don’t think it’s possible, you’ve lost half the battle already.
It’s one thing to acknowledge it will be difficult. It’s another thing to feel like it’s hopeless. You must cling to hope and be confident that you can succeed. You not only need to convince yourself you will succeed but you need to project that confidence to your ex as you put your plans into action.
Your mind is a powerful force in your efforts to get your ex back. These three small steps will take you far in your efforts to save your relationship.
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