It can be so hard for someone when their partner breaks up with them. You cant help but wonder what might have been. The situation may be that you have hurt your partner in some way and want to win them back.
This short piece is going to look at what options are available to you if you want to get back with your ex after you have cheated on them. You first need to truly accept that what you done is wrong, there is no point carrying on if you don’t really regret anything.
So if you are 100% into this then you are ready to try getting your ex back. Firstly, you need to make a vow to yourself to never ever be unfaithful again.
It is important to try to keep as much distance as possible between yourself and your ex soon after the split. You will get some much needed breathing space and thinking time by doing this. You will be able to use this time to your advantage too, by cleaning up your image or trying a new hobby.
It is vital that you do not try to contact your ex at all during this period, no messages, emails or phone calls at all. After your cooling off period, it is now time to contact your ex, this should be done calmly and casually. When you meet up, don’t launch into a massive apology straight away, just gently steer the conversation into that direction.
Once you feel comfortable enough, apologise to your ex for what you have done, and gently try to persuade them that you will never do it again. Don’t over dramatise things, but try to make them see how genuinely sorry you are and how it will never happen again.
You have to remember that these tips will not guarantee your ex to want you back automatically, they may need some time, or they may not want you back at all. There is lots of information out there that you may find useful to get your ex back whatever circumstance your relationship ended under.