Valentine’s Day is one of the loneliest days of the year to be a single person – especially when it was not your decision. But, if you play your cards right, you just might discover that it’s a perfect opportunity to get your ex back. You just have to have all the right moves lined up ahead of time. Here are a few huge clues that can help you come up with the perfect Valentine’s Day plan to get your ex back.
K.I.S.S.
Keep it simple sweetie! That’s the rule of day if you want to get big results. Extravagant efforts will get marginal notice. It’s the sweet and simple things that can get you the real; honest to goodness lasting results you’re after.
The other beauty of a simple plan is that allows for fewer things to go wrong. When you have elaborate plans, one wrong move or misstep can send the entire plan off course in a catastrophic way.
Simple plans also get more positive attention from the object of your affections more often than not. They feel less pressured and less overwhelmed but are able to feel the love, time, and attention that went into the planning process.
It’s sort of the ‘Goldilocks’ rule of event planning. Not too hot. Not too cold. It’s just right.
No Pressure
The real key, and often the most difficult part of the planning process, is finding a way to make your message and intent clear without applying so much pressure that the entire thing blows up in your face. You want this to be a low-key attempt to get your ex back. Don’t go in with all guns blazing or you run the risk of sending your ex gunning for the hills in a fast and furious sort of way.
Make the entire evening an ‘easy out’ for your ex if he or she begins to feel uncomfortable or pressured at any moment. Your goal is to get your ex back and not to make your ex feel trapped or confined by you. Don’t go for the five-course meal that will keep your ex there all night. Instead, go out for coffee or dessert. You get the pleasure of your ex’s company and your ex doesn’t feel confined. However, it’s perfectly acceptable to linger if things go well.
Put a Little Heart Into It
This is your effort to get your ex back. While you don’t want to go highly extravagant or to apply undo pressure you still want to make your message clear. You’re going to have to put a little bit of heart and soul into it in order for it to ring true or to make an impression.
Now that you know the steps you need to take in order for your Valentine’s plan to be a hit in your effort to get your ex back, it’s time to learn the steps you need to take to make sure your ex accepts the date you have planned. Follow the step by step instructions in this video and you’re sure to be off to a great start.