“Definately I wanted him to have my number. Actually it wasn´t really what he said to me. It was the manner in which he carried himself….”
This is the snippet of a conversation I was eaves dropping in on as I was bored on my train journey. I was struck by what was said because I had assumed that telephone numbers are procured by what you say, not your body language.
However a little fact bubbled up into my mind, reminding me that body language happens on a subconscious level and either you have it as a guy or you don´t. I was just deciding to throw the thought out of my head, when I realized I could check Wikipedia and found that, as stated by James Borg, ‘ communication consists of 93 per cent body language…..and 7% only of communication is made up of words themselves’.
This hit me like a train. Why had I been putting so much emphasis on what I said to women? Probably because I’ve been conditioned to think this way; all those American films where the guy goes up to the girl at the bar and wins her over with the perfect one liner. But what is body language?
All in all I am not conscious of my body, however there are times when I´m totally in my body and aware of it and this is usually when I´m feeling in an upbeat mood. Is there anything we can actually do about our body language attraction? And if this is possible, how effective is dictating our own body language in creating self-confidence and…let’s be honest…attracting the opposite sex?
From my own experience I understand that many of the most effective and life transforming spiritual methods since the turn of the 20th century, like AA 12 step recovery and Landmark, all place great emphasis on acting yourself into a whole new way of thinking.
So in all fairness why couldn´t we apply the same principles to our body language? And when you consider how much of our communication comes down to our body and movements, had anyone developed a system that used this power to change our self esteem and I suppose at the end of it, make us more attractive to potential mates. This could be named body language attraction.
I did a bit of research and wasn’t particularly impressed with what I found until I clicked on Rob Brinded’s codeofthenatural.com. Curious to find more about a free report into ‘top 10 secrets to reprogram your body language to trigger attraction in women’, I eventually had to buy his multimedia eBook and have, much to my surprise, that his work is highly effective and thoroughly underpriced for what you get. Body Language Course
With only 6 minutes of easy to do exercises a day I have found my confidence and posture to have really progressed, and I have noticed women looking and smiling at me for the first time ever! For me body language attraction has been totally missed as a concept, which for me is unbelievable – there really IS something extremely powerful this body language system. Body Language Attraction
It would seem that we have taken a bit of a time to realize what the animal kingdom has long been giving clues about in how to attract the opposite sex. I´m going to show a lot more respect to the stars of David Attenborough´s next documentary and look for more lessons that I can use in my world.