Why are you alive, if not to get to know yourself better?
Some people question the need to get to know themselves better. They believe you’re better off just dealing with your world. It’s a waste to spend time looking inside yourself.
These statements most likely originate from not understanding the value of introspection. And not having effective techniques and tools which really work. Plus, we have all been so conditioned by society to not look inside ourselves. This conditioning is so pervasive we usually don’t even see it; like the fish doesn’t see the water.
Let me list two examples:
1. We’re supposed to love others, but if we love ourselves it’s considered selfish.
2. We’re sometimes told we should trust ourselves, but it’s never explained how in the world to do it. Mostly we’re taught to trust ‘the system’ in its many different forms such as government, school, and religion.
There’s a constant unfolding going on inside each one of us. We’re not static. If it appears static, consider that a warning sign to really take the time to learn more about yourself. Cause you’re stuck! And stagnation will lead to pain.
And as for being selfish, well, doesn’t it depend on just how you define the word? If it’s considered selfish to love yourself, then I’m all for being selfish! To me, when you work on knowing yourself, that’s an act of love.
But what’s the real value of trying to know yourself better? Here’s seven good reasons:
1. It’s easier to interact with your world when you know your strengths and weaknesses.
2. It’s easier to attain success in life because you’ll be able to use your talents with greater effectiveness. Because you’ve taken the time to explore your talents!
3. You’ll be able to interact with other people better, because you’ll have a greater understanding of human nature when you explore yourself.
4. You’ll feel safer and more secure.
5. When you look inside yourself, it makes you happier because you’ll be better equipped to meet your needs.
6. It reduces the likelihood you’ll create self sabotage.
7. You’re better able to reconnect with your Creator because that bond we all long for lies inside, not out in the world somewhere.
And why in the world are we even here, if not to get to know ourselves better so we can reunite with a Higher Power?
Also, you’ll experience less pain in your life, because pain comes from a longing for – and a separation from – some thing. In this example, the pain would come from being separated from yourself.
Plus, self exploration improves your imagination and creativity. You will feel more fully and think more clearly. Your muscle of expectation will improve. Which means you’ll be much more likely to live life on your terms.
I believe a world of illusion exists ‘out here’, but a universe of reality exists inside me. I’d rather focus on reality as much as possible. I’d rather try to use the reality to create a better illusion.
One more point: as you get to know yourself better, you’ll be less of a victim. When the time comes to get started, you can go to this page on emotional healing.