No one likes to do it but everyone does. It doesn’t matter if you find it stressful and horrible, or just trying to heal your broken heart, or if you really enjoy it, you know you are going to have to do it if you want to find that one person you want to spent the rest of your life with and end your dating career. Girls, you simply have to date guys if you are ever going to find the perfect one for you. So, here is some good advice for you.
Successful dating can be broken down into the five most important things about dating guys. They are:
1. Guys are not girls. While girls like to shop at the mall trying on tons of clothes, guys do not like to hang at the mall. Even if they need something it’s difficult to get them to go shopping. Save this type of behavior for your girlfriends.
2. Guys are not girls. They do not want to hear about your feelings every minute of the day or what is wrong with your relationship. They will instantly shut their ears to you unless you keep it short and sweet, pick the proper time to talk. Take note to never talk about your relationship in front of yours or his friends, this will most likely lead to an embarrassing argument. And when discussing your relationship with him, never, never, ever compared your ex to him.
3. Guys are not girls. Do not show up on his door with no make up and ratty jeans, he is not going to like it, trust me on this. Maybe later – way later, like after the kids become teenagers – it will be okay for this kind of thing to happen. Please girls, for now, don’t let yourself go, wear cute clothes and make up to keep your man interested.
4. Guys are not girls. They do not love it when their date pulls out their phone at the restaurant and starts texting their friends. You should be keeping in touch with your friends but when you are with your man he needs to feel like he’s number one. He deserves you to give him your undivided attention. When you are on a date it is just not nice to text or talk on your phone. Your date should feel like he is worth your full attention.
5. Guys are not girls. Guys are not entertained by hurtful and interesting gossip about others, they will not giggle about it with you. Who can come up with most hurtful rumor is nothing to be proud of, according to the male half of the population. Neither is it way cool to be able to gossip about one of his friends with something that may not be true – guys do not gossip about each other like girls do. Save this kind of talk for the girls over drinks one night.
To having a great time on your dates, remembering these five very important tips will take you much farther with dating guys. Remembering these tips about dating guys will also allow you to get more than one date with the same guy. While many people offering advice on dating will simply say “be yourself”.
But trust me, while that is not terrible advice don’t be yourself if it includes any of the above five most important things not to do behavior when dating guys. Be better. Have a better dating life and heal your broken heart, just remember these five very important tips about dating guys.